{"id":13780,"date":"2022-07-15T17:06:25","date_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:06:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drypers.com.my\/?p=13780"},"modified":"2024-02-07T20:06:27","modified_gmt":"2024-02-07T12:06:27","slug":"sibling-fights","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/en\/sibling-fights","title":{"rendered":"Sibling fights\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">Siblings\u2019 fights are common and very natural. Squabbling and arguing are more or less a part of family life.  It\u2019s almost impossible to not have arguments when you live that close together, as many siblings do. And why some siblings fight more than others is more or less a question of personality\u202f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">But perhaps that knowledge isn\u2019t enough for you to keep your cool and stay sane. Dealing with two or more kids fighting day in and day out can be very frustrating. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-heading\"><br>Here are some small tips to help keep the peace around the house and manage things in the long run:&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Never compare your kids with each other.\u202f No competing like, \u201cwho can put on their shoes first?\u201d. Yes, it\u2019s a great tactic to get everyone out of the door in time for anything. But try something else. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Encourage teamwork whenever possible (perhaps it\u2019s them against you in the next board game?) and acknowledge cooperation with a lot of praise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Nurture their differences and personal strengths. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Give a little privacy, and especially if they are sharing a room. An hour from time to time without the company of each other is calming. Find time alone for each kid. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Encourage outside friendships. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Teach them to always show respect for one another, especially when they are fighting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-heading\"><br>But what do you do when you hear an argument starting? Try this.&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\"><em><strong>STEP 1:<\/strong><\/em> Give them a chance to work out their disagreement on their own. They need to learn that.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\"><em><strong>STEP 2: <\/strong><\/em>Intervene. Let each tell the story, no interrupting is allowed and everyone gets a turn. Being heard is really important for one\u2019s self-esteem. Stay neutral at all times. Find out the facts.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\"><strong><em>STEP 3:<\/em> <\/strong>Then ask; \u201cWhat can you do to solve this problem?\u201d Make suggestions when the kids seem stuck.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">And remember it\u2019s almost impossible to be fair in every situation. But in the end, it will even out. Just like life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\"><br>If nothing above works there is one more solution &#8211; <strong>AAD: Anticipate And Distract<\/strong>. It demands more of you as a parent. To always be on top of things and always within hearing can be a tiring task. But sometimes, and for certain periods, an intervention before the argument escalades is the only sane solution. At least for your nerves and tortured ears.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Siblings\u2019 fights are common and very natural. Squabbling and arguing are more or less a part of family life. It\u2019s almost impossible to not have arguments when you live that close together, as many siblings do. And why some siblings fight more than others is more or less a question of personality\u202f. 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