{"id":13780,"date":"2022-07-15T17:06:25","date_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:06:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drypers.com.my\/?p=13780"},"modified":"2024-02-07T20:06:27","modified_gmt":"2024-02-07T12:06:27","slug":"sibling-fights","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights","title":{"rendered":"Pergaduhan antara adik-beradik\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">Pergaduhan antara adik-beradik adalah perkara biasa (semua orang pun pernah mengalaminya) dan ia merupakan adat semulajadi. Bertengkar dan berbalah adalah sesuatu yang menjadi sebahagian hidup berkeluarga. Ia adalah mustahil untuk tidak bergaduh apabila anda tinggal sebumbung, seperti kebanyakan adik-beradik. Dan soal mengapa sesetengah adik-beradik bergaduh lebih daripada yang lain adalah bergantung kepada personaliti mereka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">Tapi, barangkali ini tidak cukup untuk anda kekal tenang dan kekal waras. Ia memang susah untuk menjaga dua orang anak atau lebih yang kerap bergaduh seharian. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-heading\"><br>Jadi, di sini ada sedikit tip untuk membantu anda menjaga keamanan di rumah dan menguruskan perkara ini dalam jangkamasa panjang:&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Jangan bandingkan anak-anak anda. Cara yang kompetatif seperti, \u201cSiapa yang dapat memakai kasut dahulu?\u201d Ya, ia satu taktik yang bagus untuk dapatkan mereka keluar dari rumah secepat mungkin. Namun, anda juga boleh cuba kaedah lain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Galakkan kerjasama selagi boleh (contohnya mereka bertanding dengan anda dalam permainan papan) dan memuji kerjasama mereka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Pupuklah perbezaan dan kelebihan mereka yang tersendiri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Berikan mereka sedikit privasi, terutamanya jika mereka berkongsi bilik. Tempoh satu jam dari semasa ke semasa tanpa ditemani sesiapa boleh jadi suatu tempoh yang tenang bagi mereka. Berikan waktu bersendirian untuk setiap kanak-kanak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Galakkan mereka untuk jalinkan persahabatan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">\u2022 Ajar mereka untuk sentiasa menghormati satu sama lain, terumatanya jika mereka bergaduh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-heading\"><br>Tetapi, apakah yang harus dilakukan apabila mereka mula bergaduh? Cuba lakukan ini.&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\"><em><strong>LANGKAH PERTAMA:<\/strong><\/em> Beri mereka peluang untuk selesaikan pergaduhan dengan sendiri. Mereka perlu belajar untuk berbuat begini.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\"><em><strong>LANGKAH KEDUA: <\/strong><\/em>Masuk campur. Bagi ruang untuk setiap anak anda ceritakan apa yang berlaku, jangan menyela dan berikan giliran masing-masing. Peluang untuk didengari adalah sangat penting untuk harga diri setiap orang. Pastikan anda bersikap neutral dan cari fakta sebenar.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\"><strong><em>LANGKAH KETIGA:<\/em> <\/strong>Kemudian tanya kepada mereka, \u201cApakah yang boleh kamu semua buat untuk selesaikan masalah ini?\u201d Berikan cadangan hanya jika anak-anak anda temui jalan buntu.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">Dan, ingatlah, bahawa ia hampir mustahil untuk kita berlaku adil dalam setiap situasi. Tetapi, segalanya akan menjadi sekata akhirnya. Sama seperti kehidupan.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\"><br>Jika kaedah di atas tidak berhasil, masih ada satu kaedah lain, iaitu <strong>AAD; Anticipate And Distract (Buat jangkaan dan alihkan perhatian)<\/strong>. Ia memerlukan peranan yang lebih mendalam daripada anda sebagai ibubapa, dengan cara anda mengawasi dan sentiasa mendengar. Ia memang memenatkan. Namun, kadangkala, sebelum pergaduhan itu menjadi lebih tenat, inilah solusi yang paling waras. Tentunya ia mengelakkan telinga dan jiwa ada daripada terseksa.&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Siblings\u2019 fights are common and very natural. Squabbling and arguing are more or less a part of family life. It\u2019s almost impossible to not have arguments when you live that close together, as many siblings do. And why some siblings fight more than others is more or less a question of personality\u202f. But perhaps that [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13780","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-your-growing-baby"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Sibling fights\u00a0 - Drypers Malaysia<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"ms_MY\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Sibling fights\u00a0 - Drypers Malaysia\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Siblings\u2019 fights are common and very natural. Squabbling and arguing are more or less a part of family life. It\u2019s almost impossible to not have arguments when you live that close together, as many siblings do. And why some siblings fight more than others is more or less a question of personality\u202f. But perhaps that [&hellip;]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Drypers Malaysia\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2022-07-15T09:06:25+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2024-02-07T12:06:27+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"james.kok\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"james.kok\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minit\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"james.kok\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#\/schema\/person\/bf831669e16207f932eb16766be46a45\"},\"headline\":\"Sibling fights\u00a0\",\"datePublished\":\"2022-07-15T09:06:25+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2024-02-07T12:06:27+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights\"},\"wordCount\":396,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#organization\"},\"articleSection\":[\"Your growing baby\"],\"inLanguage\":\"ms-MY\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights\",\"name\":\"Sibling fights\u00a0 - Drypers Malaysia\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2022-07-15T09:06:25+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2024-02-07T12:06:27+00:00\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"ms-MY\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/en\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Sibling fights\u00a0\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/\",\"name\":\"Drypers Malaysia\",\"description\":\"\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"ms-MY\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Drypers Malaysia\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"ms-MY\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/cropped-footer-logo-shadow.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/cropped-footer-logo-shadow.png\",\"width\":191,\"height\":98,\"caption\":\"Drypers Malaysia\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\"}},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#\/schema\/person\/bf831669e16207f932eb16766be46a45\",\"name\":\"james.kok\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/author\/james-kok\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Sibling fights\u00a0 - Drypers Malaysia","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights","og_locale":"ms_MY","og_type":"article","og_title":"Sibling fights\u00a0 - Drypers Malaysia","og_description":"Siblings\u2019 fights are common and very natural. Squabbling and arguing are more or less a part of family life. It\u2019s almost impossible to not have arguments when you live that close together, as many siblings do. And why some siblings fight more than others is more or less a question of personality\u202f. But perhaps that [&hellip;]","og_url":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights","og_site_name":"Drypers Malaysia","article_published_time":"2022-07-15T09:06:25+00:00","article_modified_time":"2024-02-07T12:06:27+00:00","author":"james.kok","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"james.kok","Est. reading time":"2 minit"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights"},"author":{"name":"james.kok","@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#\/schema\/person\/bf831669e16207f932eb16766be46a45"},"headline":"Sibling fights\u00a0","datePublished":"2022-07-15T09:06:25+00:00","dateModified":"2024-02-07T12:06:27+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights"},"wordCount":396,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#organization"},"articleSection":["Your growing baby"],"inLanguage":"ms-MY"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights","url":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights","name":"Sibling fights\u00a0 - Drypers Malaysia","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#website"},"datePublished":"2022-07-15T09:06:25+00:00","dateModified":"2024-02-07T12:06:27+00:00","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"ms-MY","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/sibling-fights#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/en\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Sibling fights\u00a0"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#website","url":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/","name":"Drypers Malaysia","description":"","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"ms-MY"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#organization","name":"Drypers Malaysia","url":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"ms-MY","@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/cropped-footer-logo-shadow.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/cropped-footer-logo-shadow.png","width":191,"height":98,"caption":"Drypers Malaysia"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"}},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/#\/schema\/person\/bf831669e16207f932eb16766be46a45","name":"james.kok","url":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/author\/james-kok"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13780","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13780"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13780\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":32098,"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13780\/revisions\/32098"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13780"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13780"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drypersweb.vindagroupsea.com\/bm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13780"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}